Relationships

Infidelity

“Cheating” and breaches of relationship agreements

Feelings of guilt, shame, or secrecy

Erosion of intimacy and connection

Difficulty rebuilding trust or moving forward

Attachment
Styles

Fear of rejection or abandonment

Difficulty trusting others or forming close bonds

Emotional dysregulation

Anxiety or avoidance in close relationships

Patterns of unhealthy behaviors or choices

Relationship Diversity

Do you or your partner want to have an “open relationship”?

Non-monogamy, polyamory, relationship anarchy, mixed-orientation relationship(s)

Contrasting beliefs about love, intimacy, or commitment

Difficulty navigating societal / familial judgments or external pressures

Dating

Difficulty establishing emotional connections

Challenges in setting healthy boundaries

Fear of vulnerability leading to avoidance of intimacy

Struggles with balancing independence & partnership

Overthinking or idealizing potential partners

Codependency

Over-reliance on others for self-worth

Difficulty setting or respecting boundaries

Neglect of personal needs & self-care

Fear of abandonment leading to people-pleasing

Suppressing emotions to maintain relationships

Jealousy

Excessive fear of losing a partner

Distrust leading to controlling or possessive behaviors

Insecurity affecting self-esteem & relationship stability

Emotional overwhelm from comparing oneself to others

Difficulty with emotional regulation

Conflict

Same argument over & over

Breakdowns in communication

Escalating arguments or unaddressed issues

Emotional distance or avoidance of confrontation

Resentment building over unresolved problems

Divorce

Emotional distress and unresolved grief from the end of relationship

Adjusting to new dynamics in family and social circles

Coping with feelings of guilt, shame, or self-blame

Navigating financial and logistical changes

Managing co-parenting challenges and communication issues

Rebuilding self-identity and establishing new goals post-divorce

Addressing unresolved conflicts and fostering closure

Infertility

Emotional distress

Strained relationship

Anxiety or feelings of inadequacy around reproductive health

Financial, physical, or mental strain from fertility treatments

Social isolation / loneliness

Navigating Core
Differences

Fundamental value, belief, or personality clashes

Difficulty reconciling long-term goals or visions for the future

Misalignment in priorities (e.g., career, family, lifestyle)

Persistent tension or frustration from differing needs

Parenting

Conflict w/ parenting styles or values

Balancing parental & domestic duties

Struggles with discipline, boundaries, & consistency

Adjusting to changing dynamics or roles

Societal expectations

Pre/Post Marriage

Adjusting to new roles & expectations

Changes in intimacy & connection

Communication breakdowns / unspoken assumptions

Unrealistic expectations of marriage

Conflict over shared responsibilities or decision-making